写一篇关于你和你父母的感人的英语作文
If it is not a kind of destiny in the protection of the baby,don't let him feel the mother left the fear of words,a moment that was born,the baby will feel extreme fear.But the baby after birth within a period of time before he was born with the difference is not much; he cannot recognize objects,are not aware of their existence as well as the world outside his body there.He only need warmth and food requirements,but not the difference between warm,food and warmth and food mother.
The mother to the Baby is warm,is food,is happy and satisfied stage baby safe.This stage is the concept of narcissism stage by Freud.The surrounding reality,people and objects,which can cause the baby body satisfaction or disappointment will produce significance for him.A baby can only realize his internal requirements; the outside world only with his need to be realistic,but has nothing to do with his request to the outside world is meaningless.
The children learn to call the name of the object,at the same time learning how to treat these objects; he began to understand the fire is hot,hot people,the wood is hard,and very heavy,very light can be torn paper.He also started learning to deal with people:he saw if he eat,mother smile; if he cries,the mother put him up; and if he good digestion,mother to praise him.All these experiences coagulation and complement each other has become a kind of experience:that's what I
loved.I loved because I was the mother of the child.I was in love because I be isolated and helpless.I was in love because I'm cute and can win people.In short,I was in love because I have been loving expression of capital -- more specifically:I loved because I am I.Maternal love experience is a negative experience.I don't do what we can to win the love of the mother,because mother is unconditional,I only need is the mother of the child.Love is a blessing,is peaceful,does not need to win it,also need not pay.Side but unconditional love has its defects.This love does not need to look for,but also cannot win.If there is love,there is a blessing; no maternal love,life will be empty -- and I have no ability to arouse the maternal love.
Dear is our hometown,nature,the earth and the sea.And the father does not represent any kind of natural origin.In the first few years father what almost no contact,at this stage the effect of father hardly the same mother.My father does not represent the natural world,the other extreme is representative of human existence:represents the world of thought,created by the law,order and discipline and other things in the world.Father is to educate the children,to the child pointed out to the world the person of the road.
From the close relationship with the mother of development to the close relationship with his father,and finally achieve comprehensive,this is the human soul health and reach maturity basis.
